EXPECTATION IS THE ROOT CAUSE.....
EXPECTATION IS THE ROOT CAUSE ??
Its a saying by most of the intellectual people and what they suggest is " just do your karma and don't expect anything ". If you are doing the same then your life will be calm , less tensions, cool, mast most of the times.....
BUT usually we don't have such things.. and many of us are aware of the reasons for that... but its our chanchal mann ,, who is at fault..we can make up our mind , not too expect anything but still most of us dont have control on our heart... and we feel bad , when we dont get the thing we want or we expect...
Parents Expects....., friends expect, brother expects...., sister expects..., boss expects, girl expects... boys expects, you expect,, i expect........
All of us expect one or the other thing in life .... not knowing the reason when we have set that expectaiton from that person.... Seriously most of us especially people like me, to whom this world refered to as emotional fools ... are facing this problem, and its the root cause of tensions and anxiety... ..
A grandfather - grandmother expects from his son / daughters to take care of them when they need them the most.. they expect all the love, care, attention from their child in the time when they need the most and they think its the time for their son / daughter to repay all what they have done for them...
A mother expect from a child because she gave birth to him / her..
A father expect from his son / daughter bcoz he was taking care of all the needs of his child
A brother expect from his sister / brother bcoz they have shared same room, clothing, love of parents and many more thing..
A sister expect from his brother / sister or parents a lot of freedom of speech , expression and expect all the aatention and assurance to give her a good future ...
A Boyfriend expects from a girl friend lots of love, care , sharing of emotions, strong bonding, mental peace, suport in this competitive world, feeling of being special for someone...a sweet goodbye kiss, lots of msgs and calls, a movie on the weekend, go for shopping once in a month.., a long drive once in 15 days.., a dinner / a lunch twice in 7 days..
A girl friend expects from boyfriend lots of attention, special care, sharing of emotions, making her feel secured in his arms, a never ending support.....a sweet goodbye kiss, lots of msgs and calls, a movie on the weekend, go for shopping once in a month.., a long drive once in 15 days.., a dinner / a lunch twice in 7 days..
A friend expects from a friend a true friendship, support when he need the most, encouragement when he needs the most, a shoulder to rely on when he needs the most,. daily chat and a call per day in the night to discuss whole day activity...
expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect.........These expectations are the root cause of our tensions....we are fools we expect a lot . But if you want to realize the fact and want a cure for this problem just ask urself....
WHAT ASSURANCE THE OTHER PERSON HAS GIVEN YOU WHILE YOU WERE SETTING EXPECTATIONS, ?HOW MUCH YOU KNOW ABOUT WHAT OTHER PERSON FEELS ABOUT YOU ?HOW MANY TIMES THE OTHER PERSON HAS PROVED YOU RIGHT ON THE EXPECTATIONS YOU SET IN YOUR MIND FOR HIM / HER ?
"People see you as an object, not as a person, and they project a set of expectations onto you. People who don't have it think beauty is a blessing, but actually it sets you apart."
"Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian."
"A man who becomes conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the "why" for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any "how."
AND LAST QUESTION: WHAT ALL HAVE YOU DONE FOR HIM / HER WHEN YOU WERE SETTING EXPECTATIONS FROM HIM..?The answer to all these questions and all the tensions, mind problems & stress is the EXPECTATION we set unknowingly from others .. ...............
Anshul Dhingra
BUT usually we don't have such things.. and many of us are aware of the reasons for that... but its our chanchal mann ,, who is at fault..we can make up our mind , not too expect anything but still most of us dont have control on our heart... and we feel bad , when we dont get the thing we want or we expect...
Parents Expects....., friends expect, brother expects...., sister expects..., boss expects, girl expects... boys expects, you expect,, i expect........
All of us expect one or the other thing in life .... not knowing the reason when we have set that expectaiton from that person.... Seriously most of us especially people like me, to whom this world refered to as emotional fools ... are facing this problem, and its the root cause of tensions and anxiety... ..
A grandfather - grandmother expects from his son / daughters to take care of them when they need them the most.. they expect all the love, care, attention from their child in the time when they need the most and they think its the time for their son / daughter to repay all what they have done for them...
A mother expect from a child because she gave birth to him / her..
A father expect from his son / daughter bcoz he was taking care of all the needs of his child
A brother expect from his sister / brother bcoz they have shared same room, clothing, love of parents and many more thing..
A sister expect from his brother / sister or parents a lot of freedom of speech , expression and expect all the aatention and assurance to give her a good future ...
A Boyfriend expects from a girl friend lots of love, care , sharing of emotions, strong bonding, mental peace, suport in this competitive world, feeling of being special for someone...a sweet goodbye kiss, lots of msgs and calls, a movie on the weekend, go for shopping once in a month.., a long drive once in 15 days.., a dinner / a lunch twice in 7 days..
A girl friend expects from boyfriend lots of attention, special care, sharing of emotions, making her feel secured in his arms, a never ending support.....a sweet goodbye kiss, lots of msgs and calls, a movie on the weekend, go for shopping once in a month.., a long drive once in 15 days.., a dinner / a lunch twice in 7 days..
A friend expects from a friend a true friendship, support when he need the most, encouragement when he needs the most, a shoulder to rely on when he needs the most,. daily chat and a call per day in the night to discuss whole day activity...
expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect , expect, expect.........These expectations are the root cause of our tensions....we are fools we expect a lot . But if you want to realize the fact and want a cure for this problem just ask urself....
WHAT ASSURANCE THE OTHER PERSON HAS GIVEN YOU WHILE YOU WERE SETTING EXPECTATIONS, ?HOW MUCH YOU KNOW ABOUT WHAT OTHER PERSON FEELS ABOUT YOU ?HOW MANY TIMES THE OTHER PERSON HAS PROVED YOU RIGHT ON THE EXPECTATIONS YOU SET IN YOUR MIND FOR HIM / HER ?
"People see you as an object, not as a person, and they project a set of expectations onto you. People who don't have it think beauty is a blessing, but actually it sets you apart."
"Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian."
"A man who becomes conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the "why" for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any "how."
AND LAST QUESTION: WHAT ALL HAVE YOU DONE FOR HIM / HER WHEN YOU WERE SETTING EXPECTATIONS FROM HIM..?The answer to all these questions and all the tensions, mind problems & stress is the EXPECTATION we set unknowingly from others .. ...............
Anshul Dhingra
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